Uncertainty Is The Root Of All Toxic Conditions

When we talk about toxic conditions, poor emotional management can be the first thing that comes to mind. But in reality , such relationships occur in all social settings, whether with friends or family.

They are conditions that are undermined by uncertainty. Who seduces and wonders, and where people are caught in a toxic, black net that is extremely difficult to get out of.

Although it is easy to think that the opposite is true, we can characterize toxic people as having low self-esteem, leading to unstable relationships.

They are experts at masking their insecurities through manipulation, deception and guilt. They do not see themselves as good enough. Because they are unable to deal with this insecure feeling, they use others to feel safer.

In addition, a relationship with a toxic person can cause conditions of paranoia and social isolation.

On the other hand, it can also encourage compensatory behaviors such as arrogance, narcissism or aggression.

Why do insecurity and jealousy go together?

Jealousy, at its most extreme, is a “sick” way of connecting with others. Feeling jealous when there is no reason to do so ends up not seeing yourself as someone who deserves the other person. Or, as if one is not good enough for it.

It suggests insecurity and a lack of self-love. Therefore, it is a good idea to protect us when any of them show up. Jealousy also increases with low self-esteem.

Jealous and dissatisfied people are trapped in cycles of negative thoughts and feelings. It makes them believe that they are definitely right. Therefore, they are stuck between weakness and narcissism. It’s an explosive combination.

Then they will show strong armor when they are jealous. But inside they hide a great emptiness caused by insecurity and fear.

Therefore, they constantly tell their partner how much they love them. In fact, they will even use persuasion and manipulation to control them. It’s their way of maintaining the relationship.

But unfortunately, their ingrained inferiority complex makes it all useless. The security they get from the relationship is not usually enough for them.

Toxic conditions: One insecure person tries to make the other person feel insecure

We must be very careful about how we relate to insecure people. This is true whether it is a romantic relationship, or one with friends or family.

There may come a time when we begin to question our own actions. Then it is important to ask ourselves who is around us. Why do we feel this way?

If there is an uncertainty when it has never been there before, we must be careful. It is possible that the insecure person projects their own insecurities on us to feel safer.

These people can be real experts at sowing the seeds of insecurity in others as a form of control. For that, they use the so-called dark triad: manipulation, deception and guilt.

Insecure people have excessive control over their partners, friends and family. It makes them feel too responsible for everything that happens to these people. This makes them always hyper-vigilant and look at every detail.

Then the danger of uncertainty boils down to this. Sometimes an insecure person has only one way to deal with the insecurity they have in themselves. They do it by making everyone else unhappy.